Don't teach them life.
Parents lived their own lives, and today children also lead their own lives. Moreover, if they start living according to their children's instructions, you, who are their children, will be responsible for the results. Help him instead.
Do not exalt yourselves before them
Children are never better than their parents. With the change of time and modernity, you may read a lot today and know a lot of things that they don't know. However, no matter how much you read the best books, watch the most mind-blowing movies, or go to a reputable psychological practice, you cannot become smarter, better, or wiser than them. Never forget that the power of descent is always passed from the elders (even if they are dead) to the younger ones, in other words, to the next generation. By placing oneself high in front of them, making oneself older and older than them, one closes one's lineage energy and separates oneself from one's lineage. He emphasized that I would not wish this on my enemy.
Don't try to change them
If they want it, help them. But trying to change their lives on their own is pointless. Give them a chance to live their own lives and pay their own debts.
In any case, do not grow up
No matter what they're doing, maybe they're hurting everyone, remember, don't grow up. They are responsible for it. However, the fortune teller warned that a person who feels revenge for something should know that he will experience it in a very unpleasant way.