Education up to 5 years. At this time, you should treat your child like a king. Nothing should be banned, if it is necessary to be imprisoned, it should be done by making people forget or distract them, and if something dangerous is being attempted, they can do so by pretending to be scared or shouting in a scared voice. Children like this relationship. Also, at this time, the child's interest in life, activity and curiosity begins. Because they haven't started to understand the meaning of something, they don't understand that they are being punished for breaking an expensive vase, that they have to work and collect money to get this thing, etc. In this way, not to teach not to break the pot, but to give the child the unpleasant feeling of being forced.
5-10 years. At this time, you should treat your child like a slave. Assign tasks and demand fulfillment. Failure to do so may be punished. But don't beat it. At this time, the child's mind develops intensively, and the child learns to predict how people will react to his actions, to attract pleasant relationships, and to avoid negative things. Don't be afraid to burden yourself with knowledge.
10-15 years old. At this time, it is necessary to treat children equally. Not as equals, but as people of the same level. Discusses all important issues, empowers and encourages independence. You should never impose your will. Only, they help in the form of discussion, "eating rice", and consulting. Sometimes, if a child's unpleasant thoughts or actions are noticed, it is necessary to solve them in a way that makes them understand the unpleasant consequences without directly denying them. At this time, the child's independence develops.
15 years old. At this time, you need to treat him with respect. Because it is too late to use parenting methods, you only have to see and receive the fruits of your labor spent on raising your child.
Failure to follow these rules leads to the following results: -Using child-rearing methods that suppress and restrict children up to the age of 5 suppresses the activity, interest, and intelligence of the child's life, makes them accustomed to serving someone stronger than themselves, and leads to the possibility of becoming a victim of all kinds of unpleasant things.
- Children over the age of 5 are not trained in responsibilities and are not prepared for work.
- Children over the age of 10 are treated as little children, so the child lacks self-confidence and becomes dependent on friends who are not sure if they will have a good influence on other, more independent upbringings.
- Dealing with your child over 15 years of age without proper respect and love, will raise the child as a distant and isolated person.