"She doesn't wear well-fitting clothes", "think about her husband...", "she's not really a good professional", "her children are ill-mannered", etc., are heard everywhere. We also criticize someone who participated in it. If you are telling him, it's a different matter. But people, in general, seem to worship gossip more. According to research, 80% of our daily conversations are about other people and their habits. Why do you like to gossip? Psychologists say that people gossip in order to simplify their social relations, talking about someone good or bad, it connects people more than the same interests, and when talking about someone in secret, the person is excited. Also, there are people who are gossipers, who take pleasure in other people's misfortunes and mistakes, and compare themselves to themselves to calm themselves down. In order to stop gossip, psychologists have tested and proven the success of saying this one sentence to avoid gossip. When someone starts gossiping to you, "Why are you telling me this?" When you ask the question, the person's intention to gossip disappears, he realizes that you don't want to participate in it, and he stands and moves on to the next person.

Gossip is not so innocent, it harms people with their mouths, clouds their minds, and pollutes their mental health. "Why are you telling me this?" With this question, let's stop gossiping and live with a positive attitude and change.