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2022-12-28T15:53:00.000Z

Parental mistakes that make children selfish

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by Baigalmaa
Sugar.mn staff
Parental mistakes that make children selfish
Photo by Vidar Nordli-Mathisen on Unsplash
A selfish and self-centered person is never happy. He receives unfavorable treatment from others, loses confidence in himself, and lives a lonely life with misunderstandings, complaints, and pain. Read and implement the following to make your child a selfless, independent and social citizen. Do not forget that the future of our children is in our hands.

1. Overjudge your child. Exaggerated praise and appreciation for no reason instills self-aggrandizement in children and isolates them from caring for others.
2. The need to keep it your own destroys your desire and the child's ability to be independent. It also suppresses their active interest
3. Do and decide everything on behalf of your child. This is a common mistake and destroys a child's initiative and exploratory thinking
4. Parents need to work on themselves, because parents' and their own morals are a real example for children.
5. Evaluating children's activities and actions with money. On the one hand, it is said that it makes children feel the value of money, but it is believed that it makes children value money, not their own actions. Also, doing things for money reduces motivation, creativity and ability
6. Paying too much attention to your child's education and making demands can put pressure on the child's mind and stop their psychological growth.

What if the child's personality shows signs of selfishness?
- Stop taking care of your children. /wakes them up so they don't fall asleep late, reminds them of things they need to do, hangs out with them when they study, and serves them when they drink food and tea/
- Teach your child to take responsibility for his actions, laziness, or forgetfulness, even if it's unpleasant. This is a good experience. Allow yourself the opportunity to choose and make decisions independently. This is a good experience for the child that will be worth more in the future than your ready-made decisions
- Teach not only to serve yourself, but also to help your family
- When you are interested in your child's success, ask about the success of his friends and discuss their comments. Encourage your friends to praise their success.
-Expand the child's communication environment with others and help him get to know life

The surest and most effective way to get rid of selfishness is to learn to understand others or put yourself in someone else's shoes and understand their situation. It starts with talking to your child on the same level and encouraging them to be honest, compassionate and helpful. At this time, do not make comparisons or judgments about your superiority. It means that you are praising yourself. The fact that your child grows up to be open, sociable, caring for others, makes life easier for him, and creates good conditions for you to be satisfied and confident in your child's future.

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