Through men, women learn the most important and difficult life lessons, and accordingly learn the "professions" such as the value of love, self-recognition, acceptance, and appreciation. In general, the man you are attracted to, and you being attracted to him, are based on your own preferences and choices, and are considered to be a reflection of who you are. Do not rush to argue. If someone's husband is an alcoholic, unemployed, unsuccessful, irresponsible, frivolous, etc., that woman is not said to be the same. It is believed that such things are hidden in the inner consciousness. Nothing comes into life that you don't know at all. In connection with this, the concept of "karma" or karma and genealogy appears. In order to clean it up and have a good life for your children, you should raise your children by showing them only good things. If your partner doesn't feel like a match for you, before you look for a match or someone your size, think about how a person doesn't learn to drive a Ferrari when they become a driver. No one has the same views and interests as you. If you meet a weak man, you are strong and take everything on yourself, and if you are irresponsible, you are too responsible and controlling, but if you are a liar, you are honest, honest, demanding proof, and if you are greedy, you are, self-calculating, time, emotions, love for self and others, stingy in affection, etc. Notice that this principle dominates life. Our inner world and external circumstances attract us, and all of this is an attempt and a reminder from the Universe to make us realize that we need to restore our feminine qualities. - "Woman, be feminine! Learn to love yourself and appreciate life! You are not destined to suffer in this world! You are a woman. Is your gentleness like a stream of water and your ability to accept a man enough? Is your body and soul not extinguished? Are you able to create your home's warmth and comfort? Have you not lost your respect for men? Do you still have your wisdom, your beauty, your gentleness, your lightheartedness, and your joyous nature? Are you ready to ignite your spark of hope? Please, learn to use the great power that I have given you to sustain a man with great success at his will!” he calls and urges. The reason for any situation, - What is all this teaching me? What is all this for? What do I have to overcome for this? If you learn to search for the answers to these questions, you will not only be provided with energy flow, but you will be able to have reserve energy. A lover or a spouse does not mean a person who will be satisfied over time. This cannot be the case. On the other hand, it refers to a person who is ready to change himself for him, to be able to go through hardships, and to be ready to receive and fully accept him.