1. Children feel the coldness of their parents in their hearts. Therefore, in the future life, they live the same relationship with the same life. Whether they like it or not, the relationship between their parents, even if they hide it, becomes the pattern of communication, and they begin to interact with others in the same way as their parents. A child who grows up watching the incompatible relationship between his parents, expects the same relationship from his spouse in the future, and inherits all the bad things from love-dislike, anger-understanding, care-indifference, vigilance-love, kindness-jealousy. . James Baldwin described children as "children who do not listen to adults, but have a wonderful imitation."
2. Unpleasant interpersonal relationships get worse and infect children. Children like to blame someone for bad luck or any unpleasant problem. They tend to blame their parents for their bad relationship and take sides, but in the end, they start to blame themselves for the relationship. This can lead to low self-esteem, constant self-blame, anxiety and fear, inability to control anger, and chronic depression. When someone tries to appear innocent to their children, pretending to be a victim, not only teaches them lies, but also destroys the love they have for their children and their parents, regardless of whether they are guilty or not.
3. No matter how much they hide it, children's minds can sense arguments and bad relationships between their parents, and they know a lot more than we think. Even the cold relationship at breakfast deeply hurts their sensitive hearts that expect only happiness from the world. There is no family without quarrels. However, children should not be exposed to harmful relationships that aggravate mutual misunderstandings and tolerate each other, and the duty of loving their innocent little hearts is the main duty of parents and the death imposed by God.