1. Even if you love, learn to let it go. This is the great law of indifference. Tying and fighting others for what you love leads to losing more of it. Think carefully and give the person the opportunity to take charge of their own life.

2. Everyone is for themselves. Don't try to change people and make them yours. Accept people as they are. Understand that the differences between us decorate our relationships and our lives.

3. What brings people closer is not similarities, illusory compliments, shared life, but understanding of those different qualities. When you interact with a person without wanting to change something or keep it your own, people become more interesting, as if reading a book, agreeing on some things, disagreeing on some things, etc. is born. Convincing and burying with advice is the enemy of intimacy.

4. Remember that, unfortunately, not knowing these basic things can cost you a lot, even losing a loved one. Be smart.