We convince ourselves that when we grow up, get married and have children, we will be fine, and then when our children are still babies, they are overwhelmed by life and feel a little depressed, but when our children grow up, we live with the thought that everything will be fine. It will shrink a bit when your children are teenagers. Also, I think that it will be nice if my family member's work is successful and he buys a nice car. Also, they carry thoughts like it's nice to take a vacation, or even nice to retire. But the real truth of life: happiness, and to be happy, it is not waiting for good times and good things, but everything that is in the present, and proclaiming that there is no happiness better than this time. Your life is full of calls, so you need to accept things as they are and decide to be happy no matter what. For a long time, we think that life begins now, and now it begins. And in our life, there are always obstacles and tough challenges that cannot be overcome. Finish the unfinished work, devote time to someone else, settle the bill, and then it will be done later. After all, we understand that these obstacles were life itself, and this understanding shows that there is no special path to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, cherish every moment. Summer, fall, winter, spring, graduation, getting a job, getting married, getting a high salary, helping children, getting a lot of money, getting a new car, paying off debt, the evening or morning of the fifth day, death, birth, etc. don't wait. Enough. Don't wait for the moments of happiness in life. Make up your mind to be happy. Happiness is not a path, a destination, or a destination. There is no time to be happy except now. Live and cherish this moment. Now you, think and answer these questions. 1. Name the 5 richest people in the world? 2. Name the 5 girls who won the last Miss World pageant? 3. Name the 5 most recent Nobel laureates? 4. Name the 5 most recent Oscar winners? Maybe he couldn't even answer. But don't panic, no one remembers this often. The applause dies down, the merit awards are buried in the dust, and the names of the winners are forgotten. Now answer the following questions. 1. Name 3 teachers who contributed to your education? 2. Name 3 friends who helped you in difficult times? 3. Do you remember the names of some people who made you feel special? 4. Name 5 people you enjoy spending time with? It's much easier to answer, isn't it? They are not among the "best" who don't have the most money and won great things, but these are the people closest to your life. These people care about you, value you, and are there for you no matter what. Think for a moment. Life is very short. Hold hands warmly. You, and let them know without fail that, even though you "didn't deserve the glory," you were one of the first to be remembered. Nine athletes stood at the starting line of the 100-meter dash at the Seattle Olympics. They are physically and mentally disabled people. The start signal was given and some started running. Why some did not run, they sincerely wanted to participate, not win. When they were about a third of the way there, a boy stumbled and began to cry. Hearing this, the remaining 8 participants slowed down their running, stopped, looked at each other, and returned to the boy. A girl with Down's syndrome sat next to the boy, hugged him and asked, "Are you feeling better now?", then all nine of them stood up and walked to the finish line together, shoulder to shoulder. The audience was standing up and applauding for a long time. People who saw it still talk about it. Why? Because, inside us, in our soul, there is something even bigger and more important in life than our own victory, which will help us win over others and achieve victory. We know that you can slow down your running at this time. If you read this and share it with others, we can change our own hearts and the hearts of others. When a candle is lit, even if another candle is lit, it continues to shine without losing anything... Let's unite our voices and hearts to make this world, our destiny, and our life the best. There is happiness. Have. We are happy.