A little girl stands with two apples in her hands. Her mother smiled softly at her and asked, "My little princess, can I give my mother one of the two apples?" The girl looked at her mother for a few moments, then suddenly she bit into one apple, and very quickly she bit into the next apple. She felt uncomfortable and almost offended that her mother, her beloved daughter, did not share the apple with her, felt her smile disappear, and tried not to show her disappointment. But the girl bitten one of the apples and said, "Mom, take this, it's tastier."

Yes, our tendency to judge other people's actions is like that. We have read about the importance of giving an opportunity to explain and to allow further actions and events to unfold after words and actions that we do not like. Here's a fascinating little example of what we see can be false, and how we, judging things by their general appearances, can be confused by the real motivations of others' actions.