As the child grows up, he learns responsibility and begins to increase his share of energy, and by the time he reaches the age of 8, he has collected enough energy to take full responsibility. At this time, his mother teaches him about the many things in life that are a blessing, and how to spend his life energy until he is 14 years old. At this age, boys learn ways to protect themselves and protect others, while girls learn to clean the house and do housework. It is believed that it is during this period, between the ages of 8 and 14, that children learn to take responsibility for life, use their energy properly, and assess risks. At the age of 14, the period of self-acceptance and recognition of the child begins, and during this period until the age of 21, the role of the father is considered very important. Between the ages of 14 and 21, fathers are said to be more involved in raising their children, and it is said that the mother's involvement has a negative impact on their fate. If the mother does not give enough responsibility to the child between the ages of 8 and 14, the mother herself begins to live the life of her child, and no matter how big the child grows, it grows into a "little" adult who does not live on his own, but gives his energy to his relatives. In this way, children who do not receive the mother's upbringing, which is the blessing of life at the right time, due to their lack of responsibility, at the age of 13-14, which is called the "age of transition", begin to cause problems in their families. This is considered as a struggle to claim the energy given. Mother's blessing is the most important at this time. Mothers create a protective environment around their children, prevent them from being exposed to unpleasant things, direct their actions and actions to the right things, instill responsibility in their consciousness, and cultivate an independent person by sending a kind of blessing.

It is said that the mother's blessing, or the great responsibility of raising this child and determining its future happiness, is done by the mother, and the mother's blessing, love, is the strongest protective amulet for a person and for life.