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2023-03-11T01:21:00.000Z

The basis of building a strong family

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by Baigalmaa
Sugar.mn staff
The basis of building a strong family
Photo by Dani Guitarra on Unsplash
The number of marriages has recently reached the level of almost a disaster in society. Divorce has become a common phenomenon, young people do not look at marriage from the point of view of starting a family and living together for a long time, and marrying based on the emotions and love of the time, psychologists believe that this harmful thing called divorce continues to grow. Famous Russian psychologist Mikhail Litvak expressed his sadness at the sad result of studying 11,000 families and found that only 3 families lived happily.

All the causes of unhappy marriages are due to people's wrong upbringing. They hesitate to think and decide things with extreme emotions, so they choose the wrong partner. According to a survey conducted among women, 75% of men express their feelings like "I can't live without you", "I will never hurt you", "Let's get through life together", and 75% of them say "I can't live without you". appeared. However, it can be seen that there is a lack of discernment that "let's overcome life together" and the proposal to live are the truest. What is love? -Many people do not understand, let alone agree, when it comes to actively paying attention to the personal growth of your loved one and your life together. This is a sign of bad upbringing. Most families build their lives believing in the "sticky" words of "I can't live without you". However, while love should grow stronger over time, a life created with such a wounded perspective becomes a pain, and it becomes about the promises made to each other. Strictly speaking, no one dies. When getting married, men should be real men and women should be physically and emotionally matured to become real women as well as materially reasonable. Canadian psychologists have identified four factors that make a strong family, first: couples have similar worldviews, second: similar tastes in food, third: sex, and fourth: affection. it was concluded that they live happily. It turns out that the life that started in bed does not lead to good things. Men may feel that they must be traitors compared to male beasts. This is the biggest misconception and the biggest mistake that leads to liking another person because of deciding your life emotionally and choosing the wrong partner. What should a woman in a family be like? Their husbands never cheat on such women, who have a healthy body, mind, and spirit, and are not attached to material things. However, the majority of women, when they get married, do not live together with their husbands, but live to educate them. He also lives with and tries to raise an alcoholic. Alcoholics do not understand that they are beasts, and live with self-deprecation. Also, it is a pity that they have not learned to pay attention to men's clothes, actions, movements, words, and relationships that are at least visible to the eyes (no one teaches them this). How much does Socrates' famous saying, "Tell me a few words, I want to know you/see you"? Women are often seen living as if they are sitting down to educate their husbands rather than marrying them. It is impossible to re-educate a person to live, even if they live together, they are not happy. In the life of a family and a couple, you can educate only one person, that is yourself. If you lose, you should break up. Look for someone else. But let's not forget that parties, banquets, and nightclubs are gatherings of lies. There is a study that shows that women's consumption and needs have not changed in the last 100,000 years, and recently, women have started to seek to marry wealthy men with positions, on the one hand, they show maturity, but they forget that they should be like that, and they become greedy for material things and prostitutes. Unfortunately. Also, instead of developing themselves, there are lazy guys who are interested in wealthy women. In these cases, the choice is correct, but it is a mistake to not be able to position yourself and be independent of money. Finally, let me remind you that love is a precious relationship that is based on deeds and actions that come from the heart rather than words. Anyone can say the word love, but the act of expressing love isn't always easy, it's all about choice.

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