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2022-12-08T17:36:00.000Z

For "easy" children, life is not easy

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by Baigalmaa
Sugar.mn staff
For "easy" children, life is not easy
Big, obedient and big children are proud to be called "easy" children. They want to be like that until they are 18, and then suddenly become successful, fast-paced, energetic people who are in tune with the times.

If children are not taught to be independent and proactive from an early age, is it right to raise meek children who do not look at their own "ease" and do not see the future of their children, and to demand and want them to become successful leaders and businessmen? Now, there is a problem of how to prepare a child for life with two types of upbringing: old-fashioned, obedient-independent, and simple-vigorous. Children brought up in the traditional way are, of course, "easy" with their parents, they defend their opinions and do not argue with teachers, they do not tear their pants by kneeling outside, they are diligent, obedient and docile. However, a child should be energetic, independent and able to find his footing in life, especially in today's rapidly developing society, our "easy" children lose their footing. Forcing them to do things they don't like, denying them the right to make their own choices, and insisting that they have their own way of doing everything, destroys their ability to live independently. Once the child is taught to make decisions for himself, he gets used to it. When the neighbor's unruly child who "rings bells in his ears" has his own successful business, has a beautiful wife and children, we can only sit in amazement saying, "It's strange that he was a difficult child of theirs." We do not want to say that the child should be kept as he pleases, but to respect the child's opinion, give him his choice, let him do things independently, overcome obstacles, and help him find solutions to problems. was given to his parents.

Today, we must do everything to prepare our children for the future, and it is our most important duty.

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